Your Assessment Results
Unlock the One Trait Blocking You from Love After Divorce
#1: THE FORTRESS
Your Pattern:
You’ve mastered self-sufficiency. You can hold it down, run the boardroom, and raise your kids like a queen—but when it comes to receiving, you emotionally check out. You’ve replaced intimacy with independence. It feels safer. Cleaner. But also… lonelier.
You say you want partnership, but you’ve built walls so high, no one even knows how to reach you. Including you.
What’s Really Blocking You:
Soft power isn’t about becoming weak—it’s about becoming available.
The Fortress archetype resists softness because softness requires trust. And you’re not sure you trust anyone—especially not yourself.
But love can’t flow where connection is locked out.
You don’t need to prove your strength by doing life alone.
The new power is in allowing—receiving, asking, surrendering.
You don’t have to do it all anymore. The woman you’re becoming doesn’t want to.
Your Shift:
Book your Soft Power Reset Session with Adrianna.
Together, we’ll dismantle the walls you’ve outgrown, rebuild your relationship with receiving, and help you attract emotionally available love—without shrinking your strength.
Your Next Step:
You don’t let anyone in—because somewhere along the way, you convinced yourself you didn’t need anyone. (Let’s change this.)
#2: THE STRATEGIST
Your Pattern:
You plan everything. The vacation, the quarterly goals, the next ten years. But love? Love doesn’t do spreadsheets—and that terrifies you. You vet men like projects and analyze their potential like case studies, yet you still don’t feel secure in your choices.
You crave a man who can lead—but your energy says, “I’ll lead until I can trust you to.”
What’s Really Blocking You:
Soft power means trusting your intuition, not just your logic.
But you’ve been burned before, and now you’re afraid that if you let go of control, chaos will return. So you grip harder. You perform strength instead of surrender—and attract men you can’t relax with.
Your Shift:
You don’t need another checklist. You need to feel safe letting go.
The Strategist must learn to trust herself again, not through logic—but through alignment. Love isn’t a goal to reach. It’s a space to soften into.
Your Next Step:
Book your Soft Power Reset Session with Adrianna.
Let’s break your addiction to overthinking and teach you how to attract love that feels like co-leadership—not another task on your plate.
You’re not unlovable—you’re just over-calculating something meant to flow. (Lets work on this together.)
#3: THE PERFORMER
Your Pattern:
You know how to show up. You know how to please, impress, support, seduce. You read what others want and deliver. But when the spotlight fades, you’re left asking: When will someone choose me for me?
You give. You shape-shift. You pour. And it still never feels like enough.
What’s Really Blocking You:
Soft power doesn’t perform—it receives.
But because you never felt fully accepted, you’ve learned to be whoever he needs. Your worth is tied to how much you do, not who you are. And that keeps attracting men who take, but don’t see you.
Your Shift:
You don’t have to audition for love.
Your softness is enough. Your stillness is enough.
The Performer must unlearn performing—and reconnect with the version of herself who doesn’t prove, perfect, or persuade.
Your Next Step:
Book your Soft Power Reset Session with Adrianna.
Let’s shift from being “the one who always shows up” to being the woman who attracts without effort and receives without guilt.
You’ve made being desirable an identity—but deep down, you’re still afraid you’re not enough as you are. (This doesn’t have to be your reality. Lets fix it.)
#4: THE PUNISHER
Your Pattern:
You call it discernment. Intuition. Gut feeling. But really—it’s hypervigilance. You scan for red flags before green ones even appear. You question motives, assume betrayal, and sabotage connection before it can disappoint you again.
You’ve confused control with power. And it’s keeping love locked out.
What’s Really Blocking You:
Soft power doesn’t punish—it reclaims.
But you still carry the shame of how long you stayed. How much you gave. How little you saw. So now you punish yourself—and every new man—for the wounds you never asked for.
Your Shift:
Forgiveness is the ultimate flex.
You don’t have to earn peace—you can choose it.
The Punisher must release the past, trust herself again, and vet from love—not from fear.
Your Next Step:
Book your Soft Power Reset Session with Adrianna.
Let’s break the loop of fear, release the shame, and help you open up to a relationship that doesn’t just feel safe—but sacred.
You don’t trust men because deep down, you still don’t trust yourself for choosing the wrong one. (This has to change immediately.)